I'm Local Hapa going on 51 and feeling 25. Looking to make up for so many years out of circulation. My wife and I enjoyed a few couples over the years but a bad experience with the last one turned her off to the lifestyle. Needless to say, many years of monogamy are taking their toll. I hope to one day bring her back in but til then I want to meet new people again.

My Ideal Person I am Bisexual and would love to get together with an open minded couple or open-minded bi/gay man who understands the difference between mutual pleasure and potential relationship. I am looking for the former. If a discrete encounter can turn into a friendship so be it. Either way, I would be happy to please any and all partners in every way possible.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I would have the naked object of my desire (person varies)
stand and hold on to ropes from the ceiling and ask him/her
to not let go no matter what (better and safer than tying
up). Then starting from behind, I would nibble on ear &
neck. Slowly move down middle of back. Nibble on butt cheeks
while lightly caressing backs of the legs with finger tips.
Work my way back up and start again, this time a little more
intensely. Reach around to the belly and lightly scratch
up to the nipples and give them tender pinches. Work my way
back down with nibbles on the back and light fingernails
on the front. Once I get back down I gently nudge the legs
open enough to fit between while licking between the cheeks
until I reach the soft warmness within. Working my tongue
around and in, and slowly working towards the front.....

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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