*Notice* - If you are from outside of Wisconsin please don't send one or two word messages. They will be ignored. I am an educated person with reasonable command of the written word. Please articulate your thoughts and interests when you message me. About me: Most of my friends would say I have an easy-going personality. I am divorced, financially stable, professional, honest and loyal. It has been a VERY long time since I have had physical contact with someone. I own my own home (well, the bank does) in a small community outside of Madison. I spend most of my time there working on the house and caring for the property. I dislike the bar scene. I prefer not to party when I'm involved in sexual encounters. I like my partners to tell me what to do in the bedroom. Yes, I have realized I am submissive and would love to have a female partner who would be willing to leverage my submissive nature for mutual enjoyment. I love sex, and would be open to either a short-term or long-term relationship. In the bedroom, I tend to like kinky, experimental sex. Some of my favorite positions are 69, getting pegged when bent over or in missionary (which I haven't actually done, Yet.) I have only had one-on-one sex, but wouldn't mind trying it with another man or woman watching or, even better, participating. I was blindfolded and bound once when I was younger, and would be open to trying it with someone who has experience.

My Ideal Person If it's a short term relationship, a woman or a couple (possibly a guy) who is/are interested in a bi-curious "plaything".

If we're talking long term, I would love to meet a woman who enjoys a relatively quiet life, that doesn't need to be entertained and can find fun and joy in working, cooking, or doing nothing!
You don't have to worry about being perfect either. I'm not. If you have some "extra padding" that's OK.
If you like to skinny dip, that would be a bonus!
But no matter what, she has to understand that there is more to having adventurous sex than just leaving the lights on!
I hope I can find someone who does, who likes to give as well as receive, who is open to all sorts of play.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I would love a sexy dominant woman to put me in chastity,
makes me dress in sexy lingerie, and ( using "coercive
encouragement" ) me sucking her strap on and her pegging me becomes our new standard of sex. She only allows
me to cum if it's while being pegged. The cage only comes
off for grooming and cleaning. Eventually she introduces
me to real cock.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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