I am a sexy, attractive, DDF, professional, educated woman. My husband and I were actively in the lifestyle for many years. He recently passed away. We had been together for 35 years. I miss our good times together but I am ready to move forward with my life. I would like to meet someone who is secure and enjoys sex. I am definitely looking for a relationship which might be able to grow into something less than traditional. I know that it takes a high level of communication and confidence in both partners to make the lifestyle work. When it does, it can be amazing. I am seeking a safe, secure, somewhat upscale situation. I only want NSA sex in the future as a couple. I am a caring, confident and passionate woman. I just LOVE sex and am definitely in the high libido zone. I just LOVE to please and give pleasure. I am fit, enjoy skiing, gourmet food and wine, the beach, and clothing optional vacations. I love to party but enjoy small groups at home also. I am equally comfortable at a black tie event or the local dive bar. I will only flirt back if it looks like there could be ANY feasibility of meeting. I DO enjoy some of the local clothing optional resorts so that may be an alternative way to meet. I LOVE nude and swinger's cruises and have been lucky to enjoy a few of them. [COLOR indigo][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person The ideal person would be secure, educated, cosmopolitan and adventuresome with a great sense of humor. Age is not as important as attitude. The ideal man would be large, decisive, self-assured and have a great sense of humor. I am seeking a friend who is super comfortable and confident in his sexuality. The more complex the rules the less spontaneity and appeal for me.

Now for the hard request--please don't contact me if you are married, attached or involved in a relationship with a woman who won't participate in the lifestyle. It just would not work out for me.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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