I am a 40 year old man who has participated in the BDSM “lifestyle” for quite some time with quite a bit of experience. Looking to offer this experience to those who have always thought about and fantasized about it but have never had the opportunity to act on it. At any level, not gonna tie you up with barbed wire as soon as you walk in the door. This is just a flavoring, sea to your tastes. I am not a “troll” or unpleasant to look at, long hair, I do smoke, muscular and honest enough to admit a bit more table muscle than I would like, but not at all what one would call fat. I am a very respectful and easy going gentleman; you would never know this is something I participate in. I have my own place specifically set up for just this kind of play, a very comfortable and pleasant area with a great atmosphere for sexual play. A number of fun toys are available for use in this place from restraints of all kinds, toys for pleasure and playful pain if thats what you like, fun furniture and even such toys as a sex swing. Any fantasy you have had involving this type of play can certainly be explored.

My Ideal Person Gentlemen, would you enjoy seeing your lady trained as a slut before you? Perhaps you would like to direct this training or even conduct this training yourself?
Ladies, would you enjoy seeing your man likewise treated and trained, or make him watch as you perform with another man? Or perhaps tie him down and use him as you like? Or perhaps you are a single female that this kind of sexual adventure has been a long thought about fantasy you would like to participate in? Perhaps I can help

Please do not misunderstand; I am not some guy looking here just to get laid. I have more than enough “friends” who like to participate in this type of fun. I do this as I get a special thrill from introducing new experiences to those wishing to explore them. I will participate as much or as little as you like. All limits strictly respected, complete safety guaranteed and 100% discretion is assured.

Perhaps you would like to explore these fantasies in private yourselves. I make all my own equipment and “toys” and am a skilled leather craftsman. If you would like I would be happy discussing making you toys or equipment for your own play.

Also please understand I am not offering a “beat the hell out of your mate” service here. The opportunity to play as far as you are comfortable is what I am offering. Anything from a little playful bondage to a full fledged “E” ticket ride are available. Whatever you would like to explore as far as you would like to explore it is what is offered here.

This is a rare opportunity to explore on this level. Most that have thought of it or tried have been limited to overpriced cheap “furry handcuffs” from the local sex shop. This is an opportunity to play with the real thing in a setting designed for it with someone able and willing to introduce and explore with you. I am not at all interested in that, I enjoy this as much as I am sure you will.

Only serious should reply, age, sex, looks are all unimportant and we are not likely to “jump right in” to this. Don’t misunderstand, the quicker to the play the quicker to having fun but we will want to chat a bit first and get to know what you’re looking to explore and how you would like to go about it.

If you are interested and decide to inquire please tell me a bit about yourselves, what you would like to explore etc.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
KISS, Ben Harper, Aerosmith

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Well truthfully I'm about out of "firsts"
myself. I have tons of activities I enjoy participating
in but I would say that one of my biggest turnings at this
point is exploring firsts with new friends. Helping them
explore curiosities and fantasies they have.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Pretty much have my perfect location for play already.
Have dec

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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