Intelligent, sane ,kinky fiftysome guy looking for some intellectual and physical stimulation. Willing and able to give as much or more in both areas. I'm a very tactile guy and am missing that at home. I AM married and she is not on here, so if that is a deal breaker go no further. She is aware but not supportive. I have a sensuous and gentle side, thus the velvet in my name but don't let that fool you. I am definitely Dominant in the bedroom. Therein comes the steel. :) I am looking for someone that is a little adventurous in the bedroom, can hold a conversation and is generally between thirty and fifty but chemistry is much more important to me than looks or age. I have had a couple of experiences with couples and would be open to exploring that further. I travel most of NS for my work and occasionally as far west as Toronto.

My Ideal Person Intelligent, takes care of herself, adventurous,kinky, loves kissing.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Spanking, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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