I have often felt that the expectations that develope as soon as any kind of relationship is formed can be a barrier to people really being themselves and feeling free to express their true sexual desires. I respect women, am honest, and am not into judging.

My Ideal Person I believe that regardless of whether you're looking for a soul mate (I think we all are) or a fuck buddy, 95% of the problems in a relationship are caused by unmet or different expectations. The only way to keep expectations in balance is through honest and constant communication. I could fall in love with someone one from a singles network, but the likliehood that we had similar sexual desires would be pretty small. I could just as easily fall in love with someone on AdultFriendFinder and the odds are much greater that we would be sexualy compatiable. In the meantime I have an opportunity to meet and chat with some very sexy ladies.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Anything involving sex with someone you've just met,
that is why AFF is so intriguing. A substantial part of my
sex life involves masturbating while I create elaborate
scenarios about women that I may have just passed on the
street and creating a situation where we both just happen
to be in the right place at the right time to pleasure each
other in ways we'd never dreamed possible.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
All the time. I watch a lot of taped Tv programs and use the
pause button when one of my favorites comes on. I've
masturbated several times while looking at "Calleigh
Duquesne's" (CSI Miami) image was on the screen.
But I don't expect the woman I'm with to look like
movie stars.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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