I am a mature white male in an open relationship ( I do not require the same of you as I understand the need to step out on occasion.) which can be confirmed with the wife if you need that assurance. My primary focus is on finding a fwb (don't need a ton, a woman or couple) for more than bedroom fun. I enjoy day trips, movies, hiking. I'm a Harry Potter fan and enjoy intellectually stimulating people. You don't need an advance degree, one would be amazed at the smart people in every walk of life. But I do like intellectually challenging people. I am a retired gentleman with an interest in fun play and variety. It would be nice to find a mature wife or couple whose needs are not fully met in her current situation (impotent, ignored, not married) and who would like more than just sex but a friend to do day trips with and some travel. I My focus to to always place the desires of the woman I am with first. I can host play times or come play with you and or you and your hubby/friend. Couples looking for a 3rd should feel comfortable to reach out when I appear on. I will respond if I am on., We all know IM gets wonky on some devices,

My Ideal Person Mature and smart. I perhaps have a fondness for slightly curvy women. I like women that are playful with a sort of warped sense of humor and only comes out with their closest friends. Would love to be one of those friends.

There could be several ideal match ups...
...a mature woman, married or single, needing extra attention
...a mature woman who needs fwb and likes day trips, hiking, hanging out.
...a mature woman seeking to explore their sexuality in a safe environment.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

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