Shadow-lurker and voyeur here. Not actively looking at the moment. Still processing some of my own recent life events. New friendships are always welcome, and could possibly develop into something more down the road. Otherwise, I'm simply curious about what the various lusty and kinky lifestyles that are spoken of here have offered others... What's brought you to the decisions you've made about your life? Being a male, I know a lot of the male answers. Being on the dominant end of the D/s spectrum, I know quite a few of those answers as well. Tell me your thoughts, female or submissive. Tell me about you.