I am a feminist in life, and a dom in the bedroom. I enjoy the tension of the taboo, in exploring what differentiates our public and private spaces. I am a social scientist/academic with strong Left-Wing views. I try to do a lot of political advocacy work.I speak two foreign languages and love the outdoors, traveling, exercise, books, movies, cooking, and the Oxford comma. I am very passionate in my views but I also tend towards dry or absurdist humor. Outside of D/S I do not have a dominant personality and aspire to always be kind, considerate, and understanding. 5'10", 170lbs. Pictures with face available upon request. You can find my other kinks in my profile. If you like what you see and are in the area, let's talk. Please specify why you think we would be a good match or make sure it is clear in your profile. Also, have pictures if you want a response. PS - I have no tolerance for racism, classism, trans or homophobia, or misogyny. T-friendly.

My Ideal Person In a sexual partner I look for compassion, honesty, and enthusiasm. It is most important to me that my partners feel safe and comfortable before play starts, and that we have an ongoing dialogue between sessions to make sure we are both satisfied and on the same page. I have to trust a sex partner to be honest with me before I can get really rough with them. Ideally I would like to find a life partner, but I enjoy casual sexual relationships as well. However, even in a casual sexual relationship I require a connection.

I particularly enjoy fetish attire; I like my subs to look very feminine and pretty, with lots of lipstick and eye-makeup to smear. What I look for can best be described as a fuck doll - a woman for whom play involves dressing up and taking pleasure in pleasing. In the bedroom I like enthusiasm: seeing my sub be proud of her place beneath me. This may include bratty behavior, and playfulness is highly encouraged. I do not want a meek and quiet sub who mechanically follows orders as if she were a robot. I want a bubbly, excited girl who begs to be used, is proud of how sexy she is, and proud of being a sex toy and pleasing her Daddy.

Playing With Me
I tend to enjoy having my sub write diary entries, send me pictures, and complete other tasks while we are apart as training and behavior modification, but I am NOT into 24/7 D/S relationships or age play. I tend to take a sweet or condescending (rather than loud and angry) tone with verbal degradation and praise kink. However I am as generous with spanking, slapping, and choking as my partner likes.

First rule is: leave the heels on. Always.

I most enjoy:

-high heels (6-7 inches)
- pleather, latex, vinyl
-corsets, collars, fishnets
-oral sex, gagging, heel-grabbing
-dirty talk and humiliation
-training and obedience
-threesomes (with a third or another couple)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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