UPDATE (finally) 10-22-15: I've been around a while now and have mostly enjoyed killing time here. Just like in "real life", I've met some cool folks that I count as friends...and I've run across some that never should have gotten past hello. I still don't know specifically what I'm looking for other than decent, honest folks who understand and embrace the true meaning of friendship and aren't into games and drama. I love to laugh and can usually find humor in just about any situation. Life is much better with a smile on my lips. One of these days I'll get around to adding more thoughts....maybe. In the meantime, drop into The South chat room and visit. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I am recently divorced. I haven't been out in the real world in over 20 years and it's a very different world than I'm used to. I don't really know what I'm looking for.