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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
When - 8/9/2019

It seems like with all the changes on this site that there is seldom meets now. I met someone about 2 months ago after talking off and on for a couple of years. How long has it been since you have met

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Reporting - 6/29/2019

I am inundated daily with flirts and IMs from ladies in their 20s. I realize that they are fakes/bots but I never report them. I am interested in how other members handle this situation.

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
ED Meds - 10/28/2018

I sometimes have a problem maintaining a good erection due to medication side effects. I was wondering about any experiences you may have had with the different products, either good or bad. Have any

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
language - 8/25/2018

Do any of you ever get emails from AdultFriendFinder in a foreign language? This has happened to me a couple of times lately. My gold membership also changed to standard without any notice.

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Big day? - 5/23/2018

Today is my 70th birthday and I don't know if I should be sad that I am in my waning years or happy that I am still active and in reasonably good health. I choose HAPPY. Do you feel too much empha

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Buzzmode - 5/1/2018

I really don't understand buzzmode. Can you actually control a sex toy by donating points? If that is the case do you really see it as a benefit?

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
First time - 1/5/2018

I would love the opportunity to have a conversation with the one I lost my virginity with. This would also include having a new sexual experience. which, hopefully, would be even better. I know that t

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
pro vs. amateur - 12/8/2017

Sometimes I enjoy watching amateur porn . I don't really get into the movies with dialog and plot. I prefer ordinary, everyday people doing whatever turns them on. For those of you that enjoy porn

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Quest for gold - 11/15/2017

I usually get enough views to qualify for free gold status but was out of country without computer for 10 days so they shut off my free gold. Now they are offering me gold for $4 a month. The problem

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Mexican pharmacy - 11/13/2017

I just got back from a Caribbean cruise and one of our stops was in Cozumel, Mexico. I happened to see signs outside some of the pharmacies advertising name brand prescription drugs at cheap prices an

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Then & Now - 10/1/2017

I have been a member for a considerable amount of years. When I first joined it was a good way to meet local people with the same interests. Now it seems like no one will reply to an IM or message. I

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
meet and greets - 8/13/2017

I came across an ad online for a lifestyle meet and greet at a local bar. I was not going to be able to go but I happened to drive by the bar that night and the parking lot looked as if there were jus

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Ambassador - 11/7/2016

Can someone enlighten me as to what is an Ambassador. Does this site really think that having people send out a generic email is productive ? It just seems to be a bother to me.

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Age and AdultFriendFinder - 9/9/2016

I use to meet friends from AdultFriendFinder quite often but in the last few years there has been no conversations that have led to meeting new friends. I realize that I am older than most on the site but would li

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Gold - 8/28/2016

I generally get a gratis gold membership for the number of views I get. A couple of times a year AdultFriendFinder decides to let the gold status expire , which is certainly within their rights. I guess they want t

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Dogging - 8/7/2016

I have been seeing more and more about dogging. Most of what I view about it is from Europe. Have any of you ever been involved in this type of anonymous, public sex with strangers?

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Parkng - 7/28/2016

When I was a over 50 years ago we learned about sex in the back seat of a car as Bob Seger memorialized in the song Night Moves. Is this something that the still do today or do they have better opt

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Do you want it all? - 7/22/2016

Do you prefer having sex for just the purpose of getting off or would you prefer to invest time in developing a relationship first?

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Respect - 6/30/2016

I saw a comment that in a NSA relationship respect was not needed. I had never looked at it that way but after thinking about it I think that I would need to have respect for someone before I could ha

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Submissive - 6/24/2016

What does it mean to YOU when someone says they are submissive? Does it mean that someone just lies there and lets you do what you want or does it mean they are into bondage, master/slave, etc? I unde

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
HMMMMM? - 6/22/2016

I was chatting with a 64 year old lady that had sent me an message on here. After a few messages on here we chatted on YIM. Things were going real well so we video chatted. I got real suspicious when

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Score - 6/13/2016

I notice that there is a score associated with the advice line. I did a search for "score" and there were no results so I have decided to ask the illuminated on the A/L. What determines the score tota

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Organized religion - 6/12/2016

The older I get the more I think that organized religion can be one of the greatest evils out there. The judgement and hate that is spewed from the mouths of people who claim to be good Christians, Je

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Cruise - 6/11/2016

I go on a cruise with a group of friends every year or two. We all live in the south east so it is easier to go out of Charleston, SC or Florida. We have already been to Jamaica, Haiti, Bahamas, Virgi

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Sharing - 6/9/2016

I have been talking with a couple online and we are scheduled to meet for dinner this weekend. When I first talked to them it was about having a MFM threesome but the husband mentioned to me that he h

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Nudist resorts - 6/3/2016

I just found out there is a nudist campground near where I live. I have never considered going to one...too shy. I am curious to know if any of you have been to one and, if so, how was your first expe

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Sexy attire - 6/1/2016

There was a question recently if men really enjoyed ladies dressing in sexy lingerie. I enjoy a lady dressing sexy but in a casual way. T shirts and bikini panties are a turn on (not a fan of thongs)

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Where did the magazine link go? - 5/30/2016

The magazine link is no longer showing under the COMMUNITY tab. It only shows BLOG and GROUPS. I was able to get to the MAGAZINE tab under notifications. Are there any others seeing the same thing?

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Zoo tragedy - 5/29/2016

I was saddened about the tragedy at the Cincinnati this weekend. A 3 year old fell 12 feet into the moat of the gorilla enclosure. The 400 lb. male gorilla came to the and sheltered him but he also

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grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Memorial - 5/29/2016

My father was a career Air Force retiree. He served during WWII, the Korean Conflict, was on a B-52 crew during the Cold War, and the Vietnam War. I would like to thank all that have served and all th

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