Cranky and ranting, you've been warned.  

partygald 34F
1711 posts
9/14/2017 2:33 am

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9/17/2017 9:49 pm

Cranky and ranting, you've been warned.

Hey! And I have access to this site! Good ol Indon government sure is flaky about granting access, but I suppose this sometimes-on, sometimes-off is better than none. Least now I can rant 😳

I'm stuck at home having to oversee a few Contractors doing some work in and around the house. While I truely appreciate their work, this is really, really a lousy day to have to keep company. I've just spent the last two nights having friends (one other girl and two guys) over.

A little back story to this: I've been on a few "dates" with couples that a good Friend of mine helped to set up. Three dates, to be exact. These three couples were trying to expand their relationships, so to speak, and this Friend of mine felt it was a good idea to set me up with them. I wasn't really interested but the Husband was Travelling and I thought at the time, it'd be fun. I was wrong. All three fell flat, and two of those dates actually made it back to their hotel rooms but they went...well let's just say I really didn't enjoy them 😜

So I was telling my husband about it early last week and he took it upon himself to invite some friends over to kinda make sure I don't lose interest in it completely (I did mention I was done meeting other people outside our own friends from now on). The couple that joined us were mutual friends who lives on a different part of the island and the third guy was this guy we'd got to know when we were coming here before we moved here. Anyways, the husband had been planning this but only told me over the weekend. I was a bit taken aback by the sudden-ness of it all but after the first awkward dinner out of the way, we played some games and it turned out to be a great time.

I've always enjoyed the relationship side of this on TOP of the sex, but don't get me wrong, the sex was g r e a t this time around too, but I digress. So yea, I had a great time connecting with and getting to know people that would otherwise be better known as my husband's friends. I'd even go out on a limb to say my own relationship has grown as a result, cos boundaries were pushed, physically and emotionally, and we've come out better for it. I guess that's kinda the point for having this open marriage. For us at least.

So that was the high. Aaaaamd then come the low, actually more the cranky. Last night was supposed to be an easy night, as in we'd all take it easy and just enjoy each other's company. For many reasons, but mostly cos the husband was catching a flight out with the third guy (not the same flight though), the couple had a long drive back and I had to oversee the construction that's currently still going on. But one thing led to another, and the Husband was digging out all our toys, and then there was a lot of tying each other up, and in turn getting tied up, and rather surpringly, the husband not joining a round or two but more interested in filming it instead (which I don't particularly like). But like I said, we all ended up doing things we weren't usually accustomed to doing. All in all, I knocked out about 4am (I don't think any of us bothered cleaning all of each others' bodily fluids off ourselves before we fell asleep on our bed in a heap of bodies) and we were all up by 8am.

So that's why I'm cranky as fuck. I'm tired, sore (my ass and pussy literally feels tired and sore at the same time 😳 I'm sitting and standing funny), I've got bruises, my nipples hurt and ideally would like to just stay naked in bed. But noooo....someone (the Husband, and I am totally blaming him for this) had to set the appointment for today 😑 Now I have to intermittently walk about to check if what we had asked for is done. Ah well.

Sorry, I've got a few more rants to go

I also have to really look through the husband's phone to see how many videos he has of us. Fuck he better not lose his phone.

To think a few weeks ago when he got back he was so stressed he, or we rather, had trouble getting his dick hard. His last trip was a long one and I had wanted night out when he got back. But he was so stressed from work all form of erection didn't happen. I understand how that can happen so I kinda left it. The next day I tried again (I even dressed up for it - I dug out the little naughty schoolgirl outfit that he bought a few years ago) and again it didn't happen. Then on day three he had gone out to run some errands and I had come back from the gym. I got home and decided to switch on our rarely used Xbox and was hacking and slashing on it when he got home, saw me and evidently that did it 🤣 So screw the heels, schoolgirl outfits and all. Playing video game in your underwear does the trick. Lol

Okok. I'm done ranting for now. I got a lot more rants but no energy left. Gotta go do my checks and prep to clean the place up. Til next time!

partygald 34F
1120 posts
9/14/2017 2:35 am

Actually I was re-reading it through and it kinda wasn't much of a rant. Right?
Either way, thanks for reading!

discreteSteve62 55M
1457 posts
9/16/2017 6:30 am

Rant or not, it was a good story. Thanks for sharing.

A thought on the intermittent access:
If you have the urge to write about something for this site and it happens to be blocked, you can write off-line, and upload later.

WookinPaNub3906 46M  
20 posts
9/18/2017 8:12 am

Sounds like a reasonably fun weekend, even though you are somewhat sleep deprived. There are far worse reasons to be cranky, that's for sure. If you need a smile put on your face, you need only close your eyes and run your favorite highlight reel from the night before lol That said, you sound like an amazing wife and a fun woman to get to know. I like your adventurous spirit. Wondering if you took advantage of any of the workers that were in your house that day since you were on such a roll? lol

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