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A blog? Really?
Posted:Aug 15, 2016 6:59 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2016 7:27 am
so I was asked if my writings were true or a work of fiction...

I'll never say...

If you see yourself in my writings then perhaps they are true?

I have no rhyme or reason or theme to my entries...

I just write what I write...

Sometimes from the heart...but mostly from my mind... as crazy as it is...

so don't read anything more into what I say...

because perhaps it is fiction?

I welcome any and all comments... but please comment with love... even if you disagree there's no need to be uncivilized.

so enjoy the ride into my heart and mind... and sometimes even I

Never Thought of That.
Delay in Comment Responses
Posted:Jun 2, 2017 7:33 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2018 6:26 am

When I was born, my mom told me I was special...

I always thought it was a good thing until I came here...

A blog compadre mentioned to me that my blog responses/ comments took forever to post...

At first, I thought he was koo-koo... I mean everyone's response posted in a timely manner, so I chalked it up to a one-time deal... you know... glitch city here.

Then another compadre mentioned the same thing to me so I started to investigate...

Lo and behold they were both right... my responses/comments were taking upwards of three hours to post.

Why me? Because I'm special? I mean, everyone else's comments post pretty much immediately.

Well, I decided to contact India Customer Service and you guessed it, didn't have an answer.

So my next step was to post my issue on the support blog... and this was their response... Mind you... I didn't expect a real answer but just wanted to share and apologize in advance for the delay in my responses...
SiteSupport > Site Problems, Bug reports, Customer Feedback and Suggestions – May 2017 (4/30/2017 6:44 pm)

Quoting papis_baby_girl:
is there a reason why my replies to blog posts are delayed?

There are two posters that have told me that they never see my responses until much later than when I've posted...

I just responded to someone's post and I see it when I'm signed on. I created another profile and signed on as that profile, accessed that blog post and I don't see my post.

what is going on here?

Dear papis_baby_girl

Thank you for taking the time to post to our blog. All user-created content that is posted on AdultFriendFinder must first be reviewed and approved by our compliance team. Sometimes, during peak hours, this process can take a while. It should never take longer than a day though, so please let us know if your content is not posted in 24 hours.

Warm Regards,
So yeah... looks like everything I post, whether benign or controversial is delayed due to approval from compliance team...

and I mean everything... guess I'm on the 'special' list.
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Bert and Ernie Gay?
Posted:Sep 18, 2018 5:50 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2018 5:26 pm

Come on now...

they are puppets...

who are innocent friends...

why are we sexualizing puppets that are trying to teach children a lesson?

Let's keep them innocent...

Lord knows we have plenty of time to introduce the same sex agenda...heck... we have time to introduce any kind of sex agenda...

let kids be kids.

I am not here to...
Posted:Sep 18, 2018 4:51 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2018 1:16 pm

... solve your boredom issue.


get a hobby...

not my job.

because I guarantee you...

you will bore me in bed.

just saying'.
Just Can't Do It Today
Posted:Sep 14, 2018 12:38 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2018 11:53 am

So I received a series of messages yesterday/today...

I just can't do it...

I do not have the energy and my 'what's the thought process' translator is on the blink...

Anyone venture to take a stab?

Thanks in advance...


I want to be you papi
9/13/2018 6:48 pm

Auto-reply message:
As my profile states, I'm no longer meeting. I do wish you the best in your search. ~PBG
9/13/2018 6:48 pm

So dirty form changing my sweahart car
9/13/2018 6:48 pm
Be my baby girl
9/13/2018 6:49 pm

dude... you seriously gotta tighten up your email game.
9/14/2018 1:22 am

Ya maybe not a millennial though plus most of the time your talking to a bot
9/14/2018 1:41 am
Honestly eitherway it would not make a difference (even if you think it does) subconsciously it is all about the looks specially for girls.
9/14/2018 1:43 am

oh hey...thanks for the lesson about girls and their subconscious. I'm sure you speak for all us females.
Get read receipt
9/14/2018 8:01 am

I wasn’t talking my time to be diplomatic nor sensitive to say a great amount. But I stand by it. Same words coming out of two different people depending on there looks ( what a specific person thinks it is good looks) perception of what they say is different eventhough there the same exact words. Essentially if the looks of the guy are beyond expectation for the girl the guy becomes like an authority figuer then it can become like Millers experiment.
Cranky Married Men
Posted:Sep 13, 2018 5:11 pm
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2018 2:12 pm

I gotta laugh...

If I read another blog, advice line, or email from married men stomping their feet and pouting because they can't get laid, I just might roll my eyes right out of my head.

Look... I get it... wifey won't put out (awwww) and your balls are about to explode.
I understand that you are frustrated with her, and with the women on this site because most won't have anything to do with you.

But you cannot blame anyone, any woman, for not understanding or catering to your need. You cannot scream and yell and cuss because you are a non-factor to them. You cannot be abusive because you're frustrated because you thought it would be easy to get NSA pussy on here.

Sure continue to bitch and moan and pout and have a temper tantrum. All you'll get in response is not empathy, or compassion but apathy and pity.

Just saying...
Couldn't Help Myself
Posted:Sep 7, 2018 11:52 am
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2018 11:54 am

So, on the home page of this site, I came across a picture of a cock measured against a can of shaving cream. (what else is new?)

I couldn't help myself so I commented on his picture... what did I say you ask?

"Travel size can of shaving cream?"

Yup... I did...
oh yeah... I'll fuck you first, then tell you the truth...
Posted:Jul 14, 2018 8:18 pm
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2018 1:07 am

man oh man oh man oh man...

the dishonesty on this site is tantamount...

that's why profiles are nearly blank...
that's why status is unmentioned...
that's why there are fake pictures...
that's why everything on a profile page is either blank, misleading, or just plain confusing...

In a perfect world, everyone would be honest, so we can make our own choices based on that honesty.
But alas, perfect world we do not live in.

Oh the wooing, the slippery slithering snake of a tongue, the whispers of 'I want the same as you' in your ear.
And when you finally give in and bed him...


what? you lied? you were dishonest? you don't want the same thing as me? We aren't like-minded? All you wanted to do is fuck me and run?

Man do I feel stupid... I thought I did a good enough job 'vetting' you...but somehow I was off my game...

And you won...

You got the prize and I got nothing...

Damn that pisses me off. I hate not having any choice in the matter. I hate the fact that you lied to get into my pants and stupid me I fell for it.

But I guess that's life on this site...heck, any site...

So another bitter, scorn, angry person who felt they were used.

Guess the ultimate goal is to get everything you can without any consideration, or honesty, or humanity.

what else is new?

^^^not necessarily my exact experience, however, I'm sure many can identify.
I just might be bitter...
Posted:Jun 26, 2018 8:28 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2018 12:24 pm

or jaded...
or have a bad attitude...
or cranky...

there was a blog post a few weeks ago (I apologize to the OP for not giving credit-don't remember who it was)

but it was an interesting post on how being here can give people a bad attitude.

I find myself on the defensive constantly here... either defending my right to be here, or thwarting unwanted advances, or battling those who have a bad attitude about me and the site and how their expectations are not being met.

The enjoyment of what this site has to offer has wained.
Gone are the 'make you think' bloggers...all we are left with are self-congratulatory posts, nekkid posts, inane posts, posts from fake people, the same type of posts day after day...heck...hour after hour.

Gone are interesting, enticing, mysterious men who tantalize and create desire within me. (not you again-how many no's will it take?)

Gone are the interesting advice questions...not the same redundant circumcised or not, dick size, dick pic or not questions that pop up at least three times a week.

So why am I still here? well two reasons... ok...maybe three...

They keep giving me free gold... I try and try to not be 'popular' (self-congratulatory mode) so I can leave the site due to not being able to do anything... but no...

I keep holding out hope that our beloved wonderfully thoughtful, insightful, interesting bloggers come back... but no...

And heck... who doesn't like to perv?

Extra reason... who doesn't like to bitch and moan and critique and roll their eyes about what's going on in the blogs, the live cams, the videos? (I just saw the nastiest.... well you get it)

So yeah... unless by some miracle, I get something from someone outstanding, joyous, heart palpitating, put a smile on my face... I guess I'll remain cynical, jaded, cranky...

Dear Site Support,
Posted:Jun 17, 2018 3:51 pm
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2018 5:13 pm

Please stop 'flagging' my responses. Trust me I'm no threat to anyone on the site or to the site.

Every single time, and I do mean
I make a comment it takes very many hours to get 'reviewed' and approved. I don't think I say anything so threatening on my comments that each and every one needs to be reviewed and approved, but it does.

I understand that comments can take up to 24 hours to be approved. But come on now, nothing I'm saying is that criminal that you need to invoke the 24-hour rule.

Take me off the 'all her stuff needs to be approved' list. Please.

If you do, I promise to include a nude photo of myself in all of my responses since those comments/ posts go to the front of the line. (I won't but just thought I'd throw that out there)
So, you're getting married....
Posted:Jun 2, 2018 8:25 pm
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2018 4:33 pm


caught me off guard...

but don't get it twisted...

I am beyond done with you...

but gotta be a bit honest here...

took me by surprise that you're getting married...


well I'm human so it does kinda sting....

and I wonder...

all the things you said to me, the love you declared to me, the promises, the "I will always love you'...

did you say those things to her?

obviously, you did because she said yes.

well... all the best to you...

I know that we could never be... and I am ok with that... and with sincerity I say all the best and congrats.

I loved you enough to let you go and find someone who better suits you... was that easy? hell no... but I did and I think we're both better off.

Be well, be happy, and above all, treat her better than you treated me.

How do you treat a hookup versus a relationship?
Posted:May 12, 2018 7:30 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2018 6:25 am

So... I've been thinking a lot about this subject. I personally feel that a relationship is, of course, much more special than a random A*F*F hookup and thus certain "rules" should apply.

Look...if you're going to put up with me and want to spend time with me and adore me and want to be exclusive with me then I'm going to reward you.

If all you're interested in is to just sex me one time then there are going to be certain things that are off limits.

Only fair...gotta "reward" those who put forth the effort and who are actually going to take the time with me.

So my 'rules' for hookups are this... if I find you attractive enough to sex you, then that's it... just sex... no frills... no anal… possible bj but definitely no swallowing. Nothing 'kinky'. No cuddling, no three-some or any some, No pictures, no video. I probably will kick you out sooner than you expect. Look we both know what a hookup is good for and quite frankly, you're gonna get the bare minimum.

Sorry for my frankness...

Now if you want to take the time to get to know me and spend time with me and be exclusive, then all bets are off... be prepared for a wild ride. No limits baby. Anal all day and night, blow jobs galore with extra swallowing, anything baby... (within reason and if I'm down with it). We will never leave the bedroom until you call mercy.

Now you may think "oh yeah... I'll trick her... I'll get her to do all and then dump her"...
but you must think I'm a fool. Yeah... my vetting process is so refined, I can sniff bullshit like 10 miles away...so no, you won't get one over on me, don't even try.

What about you? anything off limits for a random hookup? Do you 'reward' those who you are in a serious relationship with? or do you go full throttle with anyone who wants to sleep with you?
Posted:Apr 27, 2018 4:43 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2018 2:54 pm

Gosh...tired of battling the site for the past few days...

so like my 'dream' blog friend xHamburgDave I'm dippin'...

So should you if you're about to pull every last hair on your head....

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