Does anyone really connect here....?  

dukes1664 53M
16 posts
6/19/2017 4:16 pm
Does anyone really connect here....?


I am a newbie here, trying to decide if this site works, ...
I've been on the other associated sites, but sadly to report, found that it does not work, its full of female profiles of guys pretending, or ladies that don't respond.
To be really honest, I do at times laugh at the expectations listed, come on, if I was a really successful & wealthy man, would I really be here?
I do hope I did not offend anyone here, its just my personal observation & opinion only. However, if I did, I would respectfully & sincerely apologise, no malicious or offensive intention from me, I assure you.

primeb56 55M  
18 posts
6/19/2017 5:16 pm

I am real and love a large cock in my mouth.


pappabuck2 65M
2 posts
6/19/2017 5:42 pm

well i am gay but through a twist of fate i corresponded with the nicest straight man on her it wasn't sexual at all it was about a really good photograph of him and he wasn't insulted that i thought he was hot interesting the almost only real connection for me was with a straight man hope he finds a real woman on here he would be such a catch for a real woman


dukes1664 53M
17 posts
6/19/2017 6:47 pm

Cool! Thanks guys for your respond & comments. Its really pleasant to hear back from anyone. I do hope you guys find someone nice here.


Recalcitrant72 45M
2820 posts
6/19/2017 6:54 pm

Yes. Everyone gets some messages that aren't answered but if you aren't getting any replies you need to change something, either your profile or the messages you send.

If you can't pick up in your offline life I doubt it will be any easier for you on here. This site can be a great addition to your social life though. There is a learning curve to interacting here though, for most guys I'd recommend a couple of months reading blogs before sending a heap of messages out. That will give you a chance to learn before you burn your way through all the local contacts.


KItkat1415 55F  
18877 posts
6/19/2017 7:02 pm

Well I am a woman and here is my experience; started in December of 2013. Started blogging January of 2014. Met about 5 guys and had some fun but not exactly what I was craving. Changed my profile to "Looking for FWB only". Dated two guys and had a LOT of fun, one for a couple months, the other for 8 months. The former guy I'm still friends with and through him I was introduced to the Polyamorous community in my county. The latter guy was almost a serious relationship but he ended up being married among other things. Met my best friend through the site who is male. Made so many friends with other bloggers who sometimes come through my town because I live in a touristy place. Now in a serious relationship with another blogger.

I hope you find some people to hang out with.
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HasteBeatsWaltz 60F  
435 posts
6/19/2017 7:13 pm

Yes people do meet but what a person wants / expect can make it easy or hard. I myself do not want a b c. Have to have d e f and g. Most men that shoes interest are a or b or and c. None do what I have to have. (A is single, b is my age. Etc )


dukes1664 53M
17 posts
6/20/2017 12:57 am

Hey guys & gal, thanks for all your comments & tips too, much appreciated. I don't have a problem meeting or hooking up in person, unfortunately, ladies in my part of the world are harder nuts to crack via the net. I was just trying this medium to widen my circle of people to socialize with, not just for hooking up, guess my signals were wrong and/or I should tune in onto a different site eh? hahaha... my bad!


wannabesexpot 44F
4478 posts
7/6/2017 10:59 am

Hmmmm... Well... a few years ago this site had a really active local community. Yup - right here in KL. It was really really fun. There used to be an active chat group that had about 20 peeps in 24/7 - which is a really nice number as it's not to much that you can keep up and after a while everyone knew each other. There are even Malaysian couples that met here and got married..

(Psst - i got hired for a job here a few years back - it lasted 7 years and nope i never even snogged him let alone shag him)

There were regular outings (mainly in pubs and sports bars) - meet and greet sessions etc etc.

But then, the chat group got trolled by a few morons, the site got banned and everyone moved on. There are still some peeps who meet up socially though.. Best of luck.

Wannabe/Sexpot - which one do you want me to be?


dukes1664 53M
17 posts
7/6/2017 6:55 pm

Hi there... really? kinda like the old netmeeting of the early days of the net in MY huh? those were such good times, met lots of peeps... had lots of gatherings & mamak meets.... hahaha

yeah! know what you mean by morons! we had a few that eventually caused the group to break up....

(Psst - btw, are you a script writer? a friend is looking for some for a short animated feature .... ahem! no snogging and/or shag required! haha..)

you too dear, best of luck with all your adventures... be happy always!


wannabesexpot 44F
4478 posts
7/7/2017 6:34 am

    Quoting dukes1664:
    Hi there... really? kinda like the old netmeeting of the early days of the net in MY huh? those were such good times, met lots of peeps... had lots of gatherings & mamak meets.... hahaha

    yeah! know what you mean by morons! we had a few that eventually caused the group to break up....

    (Psst - btw, are you a script writer? a friend is looking for some for a short animated feature .... ahem! no snogging and/or shag required! haha..)

    you too dear, best of luck with all your adventures... be happy always!
I'm not a script writer per se, but have written scripts before and am open to proposals...

Do leave me your contact details in this post Wanna send me a private message - All comments here are not public... that is.... IF YA DARE... LOL...

Wannabe/Sexpot - which one do you want me to be?


dukes1664 53M
17 posts
7/11/2017 1:49 am

Thanks for having lunch with me, it was awesome & very interesting conversation, I've not had that for a very, very, very, ... very long time!! ... too bad it was over so quickly, even after all that time after the meal.... lucky I picked a place that they didn't rush you off after your meal... try to arrange another soon...


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