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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/28/2017 3:29 pm

From a male's experience (that would be me BTW) I've had 2 women I met from here say something along the lines of "I knew in the first few minutes". All I could think was

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/28/2017 3:36 pm

*Bonus question...how many men do you think will answer these questions?

At least one

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


prohibitedtyme 46F
201 posts
7/28/2017 3:38 pm

There have only been a few times that I saw someone and wanted to get it in....and I don't think I ever acted on that. For the most part, that doesn't apply to me. A man can be sexy, but as soon as you have a conversation with him....you dry up like a desert. Like you, I can not see someone in that light and down the road after getting to know them, I can be very attracted. I don't know if it comes with age, but I've been this way for a long time and I have only been 40 for a month.


prohibitedtyme 46F
201 posts
7/28/2017 4:01 pm

    Quoting  :

I've definitely been in that position with someone I worked with. He was actually a supervisor. Best sex I've ever had.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
7/28/2017 4:09 pm

Ummmm......I'm not tellin.........


ryangbrg 35M
20 posts
7/28/2017 4:09 pm

agreed


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/28/2017 4:18 pm

    Quoting  :

There is not on/off switch to being recalcitrant - it is a state of being . . . ooohhhhmmmmmmmm

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/28/2017 4:21 pm

    Quoting  :

Were you immediately attracted? With one yes

how quickly did you have sex? Same night

did you enjoy? Of course

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
7/28/2017 4:29 pm

I can honestly say I have never met someone and had sex with him right then. I like to get to know the person over time. So that rule doesn't apply to me!! Great question hun and have a great weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
7/28/2017 4:35 pm

Is McFrock actually Recalcitrant??

I wear a kilt which obviously entitles me to answer.......ahem.......

I'm a big fan of shag pile...............


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
7/28/2017 7:17 pm

I'm not usually immediately sexually attracted to a man. I prefer to spend some time getting to know him first before moving on to anything else.
Usually.....lol Yup, there was one. It took more than "seconds" for the attraction to develop, but it was definitely there before the end of the first meeting. But we didn't act on it immediately.

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clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
7/28/2017 7:31 pm

this is why japanese researchers are building female companion robots .... please do not add AI they will all refuse to hang out or have sex with the men who own them lol .I have had 1 woman who wanted me immediately after meeting , but she was a medium and recognized me from a previous life as her lover .so we did it ,it was awesome , she is an amazing woman . we talked more than we had sex I hope she is well where she is now .


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
7/28/2017 8:29 pm

I can say that about 6 years ago when I had not been on here very long and had another profile I happened to finally meet someone I had been in written contact t with for about 4 months almost daily. It was instant attraction and I know a lot of it was sapio induced seduction on both parts. I stayed all night went to work and went back for more I don't think it's ever hit me like that since college ( back then it was all the rabbits are in heat 24 hours )
I can think of a couple of more men who might drop a line in here

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tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
7/28/2017 9:56 pm

Pretty much as soon as I meet a man I have a feeling he is someone I'd consider having sex with...or not.

As for immediate desire upon meeting...it used to happen to me alot. I seemed to develop relationships online that among other things, involved sexually suggestive banter, even sometimes leading to cybersex so when we did meet in person the chemistry was already there and there was a great urge to follow through with we had started onlne.

Other times, something about someones look, mannerisms or personality have a profound sexual effect on me and when turned on I feel no need to hold back.

As I said used to, doesn't happen much anymore. Can I blame it on the men I meet, or is it just me and my state of mind these days?

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/29/2017 5:30 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Is McFrock actually Recalcitrant??

    I wear a kilt which obviously entitles me to answer.......ahem.......

    I'm a big fan of shag pile...............
Actually, I'm constantly recalcitrant. It seems like McLala is to as she is skirting the questions by blowing wind up your "skirt".

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/29/2017 5:40 am

    Quoting  :

Words of great wisdom are spoken here and from the more recalcitrance shall emerge.

who shall receive as my reward in this lifetime 72 stubborn angry women
There's a dating app for that, but it has . . . glitches.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
7/29/2017 7:13 am

Just reading here - AS instructed!

Waiting for flip side post, though not sure if it'll be about us deciding about women, or experiences with the women deciding on us!

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smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/29/2017 11:45 am

I'm going to be completely honest and say that for me, it mostly seemed to be a factor of hormones and alcohol. I.e. If I was right before my period, I sometimes was ragingly horny and displayed less judgement than at other times. And if my first meet with someone was over drinks instead of coffee, that extra social lubrication often made a difference (obviously I did have to be attracted to the guy though).

I can think of one particular instant attraction situation - a guy who I saw at a triathlon. I ended up having a short conversation with him and was mildly obsessed for a while...finally chatted with him again at the same event a year later, started dating, and ended up being involved with him for fourteen years.

Anyway, these days since I no longer have hormonal cycles and have become a very moderate drinker...my responses to men are a lot more measured than they used to be.


rachel0718 58F
20470 posts
7/29/2017 2:16 pm

I have actually met and slept with a man on a first encounter back in the day.. I agree with others as it was the situation, location and definitely the mood I was in. There was that definite spark and it took an hour or so for it to fully kick in. The initial contact, the flirting, then the dance... It was great fun!


Rachel Mae


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
7/29/2017 8:39 pm

Lust at first sight? Most definitely. Do I act on it? If the situation lends itself to it I do. At my age and situation in life, if the desire is there I see no reason to wait. If the sex isnt good or at least shows potential, I wouldnt pursue a relationship.

I seldom meet men that I haven't encountered online first. However, there are times we do not have extensive communication before meeting. So it's pretty much organic as you called it.

Even though I live in an urban area, there are few places to just meet someone randomly. I'm well past the age that hangs out in bars with friends hoping to hook up or find the man of my dreams.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
7/30/2017 5:32 am

I swear your have the most tangential blogs I've ever seen.... that or your readers have the attention span of a gnat...

Is the X number of seconds rule 'normal' for you being sexually attracted to a man/some men? No, but I do know in < .00005 seconds if I'm NOT going to fuck someone tho. I can have a generic attraction to a man's type/voice/look/scent/whatever but like flower said earlier, then he opens his mouth and all kinds of hell-no breaks loose.

How many times have you been immediately sexually attracted to a man? Many. Until he realized it and turned into one of the Butabi brothers.

Of those times, how many times did you quickly have sex? None.

Lastly, of the times you quickly had sex, how many times do you enjoy the experience? I'm assuming by quickly you mean the time between meeting someone new and fucking them? Not a reunion with a lover you haven't seen in a while. Not very many that's for sure. How the hell can a fella know what I like if it's so quick?


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
7/30/2017 2:36 pm

well i'm starting with a disclaimer which is never a good thing is it? i was a child of the 60's and so i will admit to a large number of instantaneous meet and meats.

immediate attraction, immediate sex and by and large enjoyable except for the times when i called the game. chemistry does not always make it past the laboratory stage.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
7/30/2017 3:22 pm

I thought it was us superficial men who were supposed to determine within seconds whether we'd fuck every woman we meet (we do).

I've met women who knew they wanted it straight away. I've met women who waited to make sure. I met a woman who asked me mid way through our second data if I wanted to go back to hers (I did). I asked her when she'd decided she wanted me - "Within seconds of meeting you".

In general this site lets you get to see so much about someone you have a fair idea if you want them before you meet. So I go into a meet expecting to want them, and if meeting them only confirms that then why waste time

I trust my selection policy so that if the chemistry isn't there then I still expect to have an enjoyable evening even if things don't go further.


FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
7/30/2017 4:11 pm

    Quoting  :

Well in my experience a few women have admitted to knowing within seconds. And as I said, several more have admitted to knowing but waiting to make sure. And some people (I assume men as well as women) stick to the "sex on the third date" rule - but that's just good manners

As for meeting early, I've found that there is something to be said about striking when the iron is hot. There's a timing thing where you know if things go on for too long without meeting then the chance will fall out of your grasp "If we were going to meet then we would have by now" kind of thing.It might just be superstitious, but I'd prefer to meet early, rather than let things fizzle out.


rachel0718 58F
20470 posts
7/30/2017 4:15 pm

    Quoting  :

Well, more than one... More like.... Hmmmm Do I really want to say? It was more than 5 and less than 15... I was a lot younger and single...


Rachel Mae


cs1df2 41M
1463 posts
8/1/2017 4:29 pm

Is the X number of seconds rule 'normal' for you being sexually attracted to a man/some men? - No
How many times have you been immediately sexually attracted to a man? - Never
Of those times, how many times did you quickly have sex? - None
Lastly, of the times you quickly had sex, how many times do you enjoy the experience? - Haven't, I'm only interested in having sex with women

Bonus: I'd wager many men will automatically change your questions to the opposite gender

Though if I change the gender the answers don't change much for me -- been a few times I've been immediately attracted to a woman (mostly long ago), but it typically wears off pretty quick ....and now it's unlikely to happen since it's actually a woman's personality and ability to carry a conversation with me that make them attractive. I've met enough good-looking women that turned out to be snakes, or dumber than dirt (and less than half as useful).


myexample 36M
113 posts
8/14/2017 5:55 pm

when its gonna seem bad, but am easily stimulated visually but just as fast turned off my ether something in the way they great ppl and attitude or just too rude and seems to be tooooo promiscuous can turn me off, i have only ever met 2 ppl on first encounter and had sex, or something started from go and yes it was explosive sex, others maybe if the night goes well might try or over time, but i don't think u can put a time frame on seeing someone and wanted to have sex instantly unless u have been secretly watching from afar


luvs2rock2 63F

8/22/2017 2:47 am

i was immediately sexually attracted to a man once in my life where i knew right away id have sex with him..if i could...but i was married at the time and as such never would have acted on that attraction. ive not been married to my ex for as number of years now..but i never did go back to that sexy hot guy to have sex with him. sometimes its just fleeting.


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