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Numbers do not matter, but for me it has to be monogamous, I am not into sharing, when I am into someone mentally, emotionally and physically, I want that person to be into me in the same way, if not, we need to move on. I know, not very loose criteria.
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yeah, is a bit of a double standard sometimes.
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ummmmm I have not had a super big number of partners because 1 i like a connection beyond hormones , 2 women just don't want intelligent funny, non traditional non compliant men who are under 6ft and 200k a year lol .I got remarried after 9 yrs single and just 3 partners , 2 whom were casual and one who was steady for 3 years . I had only 1 before i got married , just my wife while married. but she had near zero sex drive then liked to cheat for attention and money go figure !? My new wife will get it everyday she will let me and 2x a day if she lets me . It is all in the individual , so many things affect sex drive , performance attraction , turn ons turn offs ,etcc.... No way to meet everybodys desires at all times i'm afraid . .Biology plays a huge role ,men gain status with more masculine power achievements , women gain status for getting and keeping happy a powerful man always been that way since caveman days .I don't want a woman who gave herself away cheap to any old idiot ,it lowers her perceived value , while having many ladies raises a mans. human perception at work from 14000 years ago
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3/3/2019 3:03 pm |
nsa sex does not exist... as open as they claim to be someone always falls in love FB are a myth... they invite you over for a movie and a fuck. after you cum they throw downs terms and conditions open relationships seem to turn into a game to see who gets the higher score threesomes,foursomes,are all too many somes for my little, and smaller head to keep up with orgies seem to be just a cumfest where quanity overrides quality so i guess what i want is hard to find but the question you asked was "What have you done to overcome those sex negative experiences? Have you found partners that are open, friendly, and sexually supportive?" abstinence would be the answer... long dinners, slow chats before dropping the pants. now the second question is a bit more tricky... open.friendly,supportive well yes, but before i cum... and then the tone changes only you, cheating, i thought you would be different... are all common after sex phrases and as for selfish lovers well it seems the more they are into proving their masculinity(for men) openness (for women) the more they are concerned for their pleasure rather than whomever they are with.... seems to me you win some you lose most there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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Since I tend to start off most responses with odd tangents, I've got to start by saying the title almost immediately brought to mind the /metal fusion band Ice-T threw together years ago. Just a weird little thought that popped into my head. As for non-monogamous relationships? That's a tougher call. I think some go into them without really thinking through all the good AND bad that can come with them. I think it's very easy to just imagine all the possible sexy times that could be had with that kind of relationship, only to have it come to a screeching halt when something outside any expectations crashes into the situation. Personally I don't think I could do it. I know enough about myself that I'm (to an extent) selfish when it comes to relationships and wouldn't do well with sharing. And as much as I hate to admit it, I don't think I'd be secure enough with myself to even try in the first place. To the people who can find such a relationship and make it work, more power to you and I salute you. For me there's just too much risk in the risk/reward ratio to even try.
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No, only sex with my monogamous partner, and no I will not be done once I cum in her, I am not quite that shallow yet.
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No, have never looked for nsa or anonymous hookups, three runs on this site on and off, over the years, I have never met someone here personally. talked to several, but no physical meets. I am not a guy who goes into the random hookups. I post messed up cartoons and jokes, just like to make people laugh and smile.
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3/4/2019 8:08 am |
"Im pretty good at keeping my fuvk buddies at arms reach and no emotional attachment. Maybe you had difficulty finding the right ones too." sure did mam! i as well am pretty good at keeping my emotions in check... but i found that all these non committal relationships always involve a minimum of two people. i may be able to keep my emotions in check, i also can not be the keeper of their minds there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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aflower2c replies on 3/3/2019 10:44 pm: But you easily hookup with several different women each month... its still non-monogamy. Im just looking for consensusal non-monogamy. I do?! Wow, that's news to me! As a single man I can easily hookup with several different women each month, at least in theory. In practice that's just not my style. If I'm going to be spending any sort of intimate time with a woman I have to at least like spending any amount of time with her, and that can take a bit of time for me. I do hope you can find what you're looking for. I just think the challenge will be finding that someone who's secure and selfless in themselves enough to allow you that freedom.
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3/5/2019 1:43 pm |
I don't worry about body count but can see why people ask about it
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I know, how weird is that? I am like Popeye, I am what I am. Loved your videos by the way.
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aflower2c replies on 3/5/2019 9:48 am: Who said anything about intimacy, you just want to bust a nut and move onto the next so at most you just need to find them attractive. Lol. aflower2c replies on 3/5/2019 10:02 am: Right....like you tell all the women are banging that you have a bunch of others and shes reasily replacable. Most likeky you dont tell them about the others so she will continue to put effort into the sex. Lol Sorry for the awkwardness on these, but I'm way out of practice in quoting/responding here so this is the best way I could reply to your comments. lol I'm a little tired, and it's hard to tell from just text how serious you might have been (always one of the hazards of text-only internet communication) but I'm just gonna say it: I'm not what you may think I am. I don't use women for my own satisfaction. I don't sleep around. My own body count is a single digit number. I took being a gentleman to a ridiculous, painful and at times hilarious extent, and while I've overcome some of them those habits are still ingrained in me. I don't expect to be believed, as keeping a healthy level of skepticism on dating sites in general is usually a good idea. But I'm not going to lie about myself because I know full well that it won't take much for that lie to be undone. I do my best to say what I mean and mean what I say.
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I'd be a liar if I tried to say I hadn't had any thoughts about young women, I will admit that much. That being said, I don't think it work for me. For one, I don't think I'd be able to keep up with that kind of youthful enthusiasm. It's always best to know your limits, after all. lol For another? I'd just feel a little skeevy going that route at this point. I'd be old enough to be their dad, for crying out loud. Add in that I have nieces around that age range and it just compounds those feelings. Heck, I don't even hit strip clubs anymore in part because of those feelings.
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