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Sex: Dispelling Some Myths
Sex: Dispelling Some Myths Thanks to porn, sex hook-up sites and 'urban myths', sexual misinformation can abound. Here's some factual information that may surprise you. Women Get Erections Too Women actually get erections in their genitals and even though they’re smaller than the male counterpart, they are just as important, says Sadie Allison, DHS, a sexologist, founder of Tickle Kitty and author of Tickle His Pickle–Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing. “The clitoris is made up of the same spongy erectile tissue as the penis, which expands and engorges with blood when aroused,” she explains. “You can observe this—just look at your clitoris or touch it when you’re aroused and it will be bigger.” A Headache Doesn't Lessen Everyone's Mood Contrary to the popular cliché, “Not tonight, I have a headache,” one study found that not all headache sufferers avoid sexual activity. In fact, migraine sufferers reported higher levels of sexual desire according to the research done by the Wake Forest University School of Medicine and colleagues. Why? “Our study suggests that sexual desire and migraine headaches may be influenced by the same brain chemical,” said Timothy Houle, Ph.D., lead author and research assistant professor of anesthesiology. The Clitoris Is Way Bigger Than You Think It Is In addition to the part of the clitoris you can see, there’s a much larger part—called the clitoral urethral vaginal complex—underneath the skin that also engorges with arousal, says Stella Harris, certified intimacy educator and sex coach and author of Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships. When a woman is aroused, the vaginal canal also lengthens as the uterus is pulled further upward into the body, the angle often changing as well. “Not only is this fascinating, but it’s one of the reasons that waiting for full arousal means having more pleasurable sex; sex is best when your body is ready,” she says. The G spot Exists. Except It Doesn’t. “G spot is a misnomer, as what we consider the ‘spot’ isn’t a discrete anatomical entity. Instead, it’s an area of the urethral sponge that is highly sensitive for many people. But bodies and arousal are complex, and there’s no sure-fire technique, or even erogenous zone, that works for everyone. So basically you may have a spot you identify as the G spot—but it isn’t a spot and it won’t work the same for every woman A Big Penis Won’t “stretch out” A Vagina A weirdly popular myth is that having too much sex or having sex with a large partner or toy can stretch out a woman’s vagina and/or labia. The vaginal canal is a muscle and does not permanently stretch from having accommodated a large penis or toy. The vagina is incredibly resilient and bounces back quickly. Also, the shape and size of the labia are unique to each woman and are not indicative of her sexual status or history Penis Girth Is More Important Than Length Many men like to compare the length of their penises but the only people who really care about that number are… other men. The vagina mainly is covered in stretch mechanoreceptors, which means that girth (or width) is a more important aspect of the penis for women, on average,” explains Nicole Prause, PhD, a sexual physiology researcher at the University of California, Los Angeles, and licensed psychologist. More Thrusting Does Not Equal More Fun Forget what you see in porn, “pounding”, or fast, hard thrusting, doesn’t turn most women on and it can actually cause pain and injury. The most common place women experience pain during sex is in the vulvar vestibule, just under the opening to the vagina, where a thin skin stretches underneath the opening that is very vulnerable to abrasion and tearing. This is why generally women do not benefit from (or want) prolonged ‘pounding,’ which just drags the penis repeatedly across this area, creating painful friction fairly quickly. A Cucumber Is Not A Sex Toy Silicone, steel, Pyrex, glass, or specially laminated wood are the only materials that are actually safe for use inside your body. Toys made with vinyl, latex or a combination of these with other plastics (for example, a silicone-jelly mix) are not considered to be safe for skin contact and should only be used with a condom. Yes, You Can Break A Penis Getting a penile fracture is a real thing that can and does happen. It’s relatively rare but it’s worth talking about as there are things you can do to protect against this injury. The highest risk of fractures to the penis occurs when the couple changes position while the erect penis is still inside the vagina. If you are interested in changing position, fully withdraw the penis from the vagina first. Extremely aggressive pumping can also sometimes lead to a penis fracture. *Update: Everyone knows a penis doesn’t have any bones. According to the Mayo Clinic: a penis fracture can occur when there is trauma to an erect penis. During an erection, the penis is engorged with blood. If an engorged penis is bent suddenly or forcefully, the trauma can rupture the lining of one of the two cylinders in the penis (corpus cavernosum) responsible for erections — resulting in a penis fracture. The trauma most often occurs after accidental injury during intercourse, but can also occur due to aggressive masturbation or taqaandan, a cultural practice in which the top of an erect penis is forcefully bent. Sex Can Be Enjoyed Without Having An Orgasm “The idea that sex must lead to orgasm can be a very damaging thought for people of all genders and sexualities as it puts undue pressure on them and can cause anxiety—the two enemies of sexual pleasure,” says Melissa Coats, a licensed professional counsellor specializing in sex therapy. “Sex is meant to be pleasurable but there are many ways to find pleasure in sexual contact without orgasm.” Taking the pressure off yourself to always climax can lead to a more relaxed and positive experience. Any 'facts' you would like to share or myths you would like to dispel? ? Did you learn something new? |
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I didn't know a penis fracture was a real thing!
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What a great read here this morning hun thank you for always sharing such useful information and this was an important blog to share. I hope you weekend is going well hun and your getting to have some fun..
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I learned some things that I didn't know... 🤔 That clitoris thingy you have.... seems fascinating.. 😘 Does yours look like that one in that pic? Do you offer personal consultations? 📞 It's almost as if this is déjà vu. It's as if you and I have already spoken about these things before. You know what I mean? 😊 Scary.. Do you believe in déjà vu? So.. whatcha up to today? Feel like coming over? I'm serving a pork roast... sweet potatoes .. call... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Thank you 🙏. You know I like to post about a variety of topics. Did you know a man could break /8 his penis? Hope the rains and flooding aren’t in your area and that you have a great weekend.
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That selfie you took and posted here.. very.. very hot! 🔥🔥🔥 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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3/2/2019 10:04 am |
Wow, thanks for all that info, very interesting
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3/2/2019 10:05 am |
Familiar with some of what you have provided, however not certain about any bone structure within the penis. More discovery would be suggested. Informative!
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Ugh, broken penis xrays just give me the shivers.
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I learned a few new things today, thanks.
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Very informative info! 56 years old and still leaning! Thanxxx for posting!
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Familiar with some of what you have provided, however not certain about any bone structure within the penis. More discovery would be suggested. Informative!
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Ugh, broken penis xrays just give me the shivers.
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Agreed. Access to information has pros and cons. The proliferation of wrong information based on porn never ends. Thanks 🙏 for stopping by. You are welcome anytime.
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I learned a few new things today, thanks.
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Very informative info! 56 years old and still leaning! Thanxxx for posting!
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3/2/2019 10:27 am |
The closest I came to penis fracturing was when women are on top "pounding" me. I've had sex without orgasm, it happened quite often with a few selfish women in Austin I once ran with, and in the after hours the feeling is exactly the same as if I did, but I really didn't, and I really wish had. Another interesting thing I found, with a group of generous women in San Antonio: After 4 days of sex, sex, and more sex, with orgasms I might add, urinating felt just like an orgasm.
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The closest I came to penis fracturing was when women are on top "pounding" me. I've had sex without orgasm, it happened quite often with a few selfish women in Austin I once ran with, and in the after hours the feeling is exactly the same as if I did, but I really didn't, and I really wish had. Another interesting thing I found, with a group of generous women in San Antonio: After 4 days of sex, sex, and more sex, with orgasms I might add, urinating felt just like an orgasm.
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That selfie you took and posted here.. very.. very hot! 🔥🔥🔥
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I learned some things that I didn't know... 🤔 That clitoris thingy you have.... seems fascinating.. 😘 Does yours look like that one in that pic? Do you offer personal consultations? 📞 It's almost as if this is déjà vu. It's as if you and I have already spoken about these things before. You know what I mean? 😊 Scary.. Do you believe in déjà vu? So.. whatcha up to today? Feel like coming over? I'm serving a pork roast... sweet potatoes .. call...
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Great information!!! I, normally, don’t orgasm with partners. But that’s ok. I like the fucking!! I need a really great kiss!!
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Glad to be of service lol. Thanks for stopping by.
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Deserving? lol... Are you deserving of mine? 😘🤔 Yes I am... and so are you. You know that. ❤️ Are we alone? Lean toward me and I'll remind you again... 😊 Let me whisper, what we should do... I think, you'll like my plans... 🤗 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Great information!!! I, normally, don’t orgasm with partners. But that’s ok. I like the fucking!!
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Wow, thanks for all that info, very interesting
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Yes indeed it’s a real thing /8 and thankfully, rarely happens. Thanks for stopping by.
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I learned some things that I didn't know... 🤔 That clitoris thingy you have.... seems fascinating.. 😘 Does yours look like that one in that pic? Do you offer personal consultations? 📞 It's almost as if this is déjà vu. It's as if you and I have already spoken about these things before. You know what I mean? 😊 Scary.. Do you believe in déjà vu? So.. whatcha up to today? Feel like coming over? I'm serving a pork roast... sweet potatoes .. call... It’s been snowing lightly here since mid-morning. Supper sounds yummy. I love orange and yellow veggies 🥕🥔. Leave the light 💡 on. If I leave now, it will be dark by time I get there.
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The term penile fracture is real. Everyone knows a penis doesn’t have any bones. According to the Mayo Clinic: Although rare, penis fracture can occur when there is trauma to an erect penis. During an erection, the penis is engorged with blood. If an engorged penis is bent suddenly or forcefully, the trauma can rupture the lining of one of the two cylinders in the penis (corpus cavernosum) responsible for erections — resulting in a penis fracture. The trauma most often occurs after accidental injury during intercourse, but can also occur due to aggressive masturbation or taqaandan, a cultural practice in which the top of an erect penis is forcefully bent.
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I'll pick you up at the train station... 🚉😊 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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You need to post the image from G.I. Joe where they explained things to kids at the end of each episode. I'm not here to brag, but i guess I'm doing pretty good about being educated about getting wild n nasty.
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1 post 3/2/2019 12:40 pm |
Great info, thank you for sharing 🙏
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3/2/2019 12:45 pm |
If girth is more important than length than I definitely have a good cock.
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Yeah, since I've been here I seen a lot of rather dumb things said. And yet another reason to not watch porn. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Those are some very interesting claims,but being the scientist that I leaves me to wonder about if these are indeed facts, so of course I would like to research these personally lol don't you?
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You need to post the image from G.I. Joe where they explained things to kids at the end of each episode. I'm not here to brag, but i guess I'm doing pretty good about being educated about getting wild n nasty. Always good to be well informed, especially in today's crazy world
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Great info, thank you for sharing 🙏
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If girth is more important than length than I definitely have a good cock.
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Yeah, since I've been here I seen a lot of rather dumb things said. And yet another reason to not watch porn.
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Those are some very interesting claims,but being the scientist that I leaves me to wonder about if these are indeed facts, so of course I would like to research these personally lol don't you? All I can tell you is that the information was gleaned from authentic sources. Thanks for stopping by.
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Deserving? lol... Are you deserving of mine? 😘🤔 Yes I am... and so are you. You know that. ❤️ Are we alone? Lean toward me and I'll remind you again... 😊 Let me whisper, what we should do... I think, you'll like my plans... 🤗
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3/2/2019 2:15 pm |
Thanks for the info. Just to be clear there is no bone as we know it in the penis but cartilage that can tear. If guys had a bone in their dick, there could be no limp dicks and they will always have a hard on....hmmm, wonder where I can get a bone?
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Sheesh. Sounds unpleasant on every possible level. Thanks for stopping by.
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Thanks for the info. Just to be clear there is no bone as we know it in the penis but cartilage that can tear. If guys had a bone in their dick, there could be no limp dicks and they will always have a hard on....hmmm, wonder where I can get a bone? And just to make sure.....According to the Mayo Clinic: Although rare, penis fracture can occur when there is trauma to an erect penis. During an erection, the penis is engorged with blood. If an engorged penis is bent suddenly or forcefully, the trauma can rupture the lining of one of the two cylinders in the penis (corpus cavernosum) responsible for erections — resulting in a penis fracture. The trauma most often occurs after accidental injury during intercourse, but can also occur due to aggressive masturbation or taqaandan, a cultural practice in which the top of an erect penis is forcefully bent.
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3/2/2019 6:29 pm |
I knew the headache excuse was just that. lol A lot of these I knew... was unaware of the size of the clitoris. And, I agree that sex is not all about the orgasm. Hopefully that is the outcome, but... You should enjoy the trip, and not focus so much on the destination. And... my penis doen't have a bone in it. (I did read the above comments) I do love the frank discussions we can have on this site.
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That X-ray is a bit suspect since the penis isn't considered an appendicular bone. There's no doubt that the vagina,besides being a work of art is also quite the cornucopia of nerve ending stimuli. It makes me sad to think as well as it infuriates me to know end that there are still cultures that mutilate young women.Where grandmothers and mothers subject their own daughters to a tradition so traumatising. Thanks interesting post. Using more than all the road!
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I knew the headache excuse was just that. lol A lot of these I knew... was unaware of the size of the clitoris. And, I agree that sex is not all about the orgasm. Hopefully that is the outcome, but... You should enjoy the trip, and not focus so much on the destination. And... my penis doen't have a bone in it. (I did read the above comments) I do love the frank discussions we can have on this site.
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That X-ray is a bit suspect since the penis isn't considered an appendicular bone. There's no doubt that the vagina,besides being a work of art is also quite the cornucopia of nerve ending stimuli. It makes me sad to think as well as it infuriates me to know end that there are still cultures that mutilate young women.Where grandmothers and mothers subject their own daughters to a tradition so traumatising. Thanks interesting post.
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A very interesting article. I always ask a woman what she likes what she would like to try in bed, so have educated myself over time on the mystery of the worlds greatest muscle. Also I disagree that men like to brag about how big a penis they have, I have a theory that those who brag don't see a lot of action, penis size in my experience is more of a women's thing, there are plenty here that exclude anyone under 7" and some that seek 9" plus! I have been told they don't stay hard very long as they take such a lot of blood!
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A very interesting article. I always ask a woman what she likes what she would like to try in bed, so have educated myself over time on the mystery of the worlds greatest muscle. Also I disagree that men like to brag about how big a penis they have, I have a theory that those who brag don't see a lot of action, penis size in my experience is more of a women's thing, there are plenty here that exclude anyone under 7" and some that seek 9" plus! I have been told they don't stay hard very long as they take such a lot of blood! There certainly are some interesting size expectations and differences. Thanks for dropping by.
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Thanks 🙏 for stopping by.
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Great post sexyldy! All these years I thought that switching positions with my penis inside a woman was demonstrating flexibility at the very least. Little did I know that I was running the risk of breaking it. No more of that craziness for me!
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Great post sexyldy! All these years I thought that switching positions with my penis inside a woman was demonstrating flexibility at the very least. Little did I know that I was running the risk of breaking it. No more of that craziness for me! Who knew this site could be so educational, eh? Thank goodness, you and your penis, have thus far, survived unscathed 😊
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I learnt new things. though i knew most of them but the Penis fracture ? this is really new. most of the time we change the position while my penis in inserted condition. but after reading this we must be cautious now and onward. Thanks for sharing such a precious information.
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I learnt new things. though i knew most of them but the Penis fracture ? this is really new. most of the time we change the position while my penis in inserted condition. but after reading this we must be cautious now and onward. Thanks for sharing such a precious information.
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Hi sexyldy1000. thanks for sharing this information. I appreciate it. I know that time spent with you would be most precious. Have a wonderful week... Hmm... Johnny Cash - "You Are My Sunshine" The other night dear, as I lay sleeping I dreamed I held you in my arms When I awoke, dear, I was mistaken So I bowed my head and I cried You are my sunshine, my only sunshine You make me happy when skies are gray You'll never know, dear, how much I love you Please don't take my sunshine away I've always loved you and made you happy And nothing else could come between But now you've left me to love another You have shattered all of my dream... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Hi sexyldy1000. thanks for sharing this information. I appreciate it. I know that time spent with you would be most precious. Have a wonderful week... Hmm... Johnny Cash - "You Are My Sunshine" The other night dear, as I lay sleeping I dreamed I held you in my arms When I awoke, dear, I was mistaken So I bowed my head and I cried You are my sunshine, my only sunshine You make me happy when skies are gray You'll never know, dear, how much I love you Please don't take my sunshine away I've always loved you and made you happy And nothing else could come between But now you've left me to love another You have shattered all of my dream...
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Thanks for all the information. Great to learn a lot
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Thanks for all the information. Great to learn a lot
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3/4/2019 8:47 am |
Very interesting read....
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Very interesting read....
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Information never hurts! Thanks.
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Information never hurts! Thanks.
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3/5/2019 6:38 am |
Interesting article. The headache one is a bit surprising.
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Interesting article. The headache one is a bit surprising. Thanks 🙏 for stopping by and commenting.
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3/5/2019 1:49 pm |
fun post
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fun post Thanks 🙏 for stopping by.
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Very good blog with lots of good information. Too bad not enough people know a lot of those things. K knowledge is an ever increasing thing and k knowledge about sex can make it even more exciting and pleasurable for all involved. Would love to explore anatomies with you some time soon 😈😈
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Very good blog with lots of good information. Too bad not enough people know a lot of those things. K knowledge is an ever increasing thing and k knowledge about sex can make it even more exciting and pleasurable for all involved. Would love to explore anatomies with you some time soon 😈😈
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3/7/2019 5:48 am |
Very interesting
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Glad you enjoyed it.
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Good info, thanks for posting!
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3/8/2019 8:52 am |
Ugh, broken penis xrays just give me the shivers.
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3/8/2019 11:38 am |
Thank you for this post. Very educational and valuable.
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wonder if that is where the calling someone a broke dick came from? I don't think so- lol
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Thank you for this post. Very educational and valuable.
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Thanks 🙏 for the kudos. Glad you enjoyed it.
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Good info, thanks for posting!
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3/12/2019 10:41 pm |
Great information and I known woman that get very erect
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Great information and I known woman that get very erect
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wow
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Is that a good thing?
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Penises do not have bones.
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Penises do not have bones.
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3/16/2019 3:35 am |
And I thought Saturday mornings were for Bob Ross and cartoons!!! Great educational content!!!
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And I thought Saturday mornings were for Bob Ross and cartoons!!! Great educational content!!! Thanks 🙏 for stopping by.
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3/17/2019 7:06 am |
Thanks for the .. "tip" about breaking a penis. Never heard of taqaandan, a cultural practice in which the top of an erect penis is forcefully bent before. But, years ago, I dated a very short woman, and we WOULD rotate positions with me inside her the entire time. Guess I got lucky (in more ways than one!), that I never damaged my member.
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Thanks for the .. "tip" about breaking a penis. Never heard of taqaandan, a cultural practice in which the top of an erect penis is forcefully bent before. But, years ago, I dated a very short woman, and we WOULD rotate positions with me inside her the entire time. Guess I got lucky (in more ways than one!), that I never damaged my member. The information was from the Mayo Clinic so I am confident the information is accurate and reliable. Thanks for stopping by.
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Really Interesting!
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Really Interesting!
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interesting read -- a few things i didnt know about
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interesting read -- a few things i didnt know about
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excellent post! i learned quite a bit, thank you.
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excellent post! i learned quite a bit, thank you.
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3/20/2019 8:36 pm |
i learned something never knew that you could break your penise
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Yes it’s a real thing! Based on the responses, it seems a lot of people were unaware it could happen as they associated a fracture with having broken bones. Everyone also knows, a penis doesn’t have any bones 🦴
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It’s been fun to see the reaction to this post. Who knew a sex site could be so educational 📚
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Just reminded me of how sexy a woman erection is too
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Just reminded me of how sexy a woman erection is too
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3/22/2019 4:32 pm |
Wow I learned some new things thanks
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Wow I learned some new things thanks
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Who knew asexual site could also be educational? Thanks for stopping by.
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Always nice when someone is entertained 😊. Look around-you may enjoy some of the other postings. Thanks 🙏 for stopping by.
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3/25/2019 9:45 am |
please post more like this!!
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please post more like this!! If you scroll through by blog, you will find other ‘sex information’ posts. Thanks for stopping by.
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Very informative, thank you!
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Very informative, thank you!
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Is anybody else cringing with the “penis bone fracture x-ray” picture? Btw, some animals actually do have a “bone-in” boner... I am glad we don’t one!
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Is anybody else cringing with the “penis bone fracture x-ray” picture? Btw, some animals actually do have a “bone-in” boner... I am glad we don’t one!
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You are one of those who just comments on anything in order to accumulate points? That’s disheartening for bloggers 🙁
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3/26/2019 12:46 pm |
You have helped humanity.
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You have helped humanity.
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Good Info.....
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3/27/2019 1:54 pm |
This was super informative. Thank you!
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Good Info.....
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hmmm... I am pretty sure the G-spot is real..
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hmmm... I am pretty sure the G-spot is real..
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3/29/2019 2:11 pm |
Neither did I
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3/29/2019 2:12 pm |
I didn't know a penis fracture was a real thing!
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3/29/2019 2:13 pm |
Ugh, broken penis xrays just give me the shivers.
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Neither did I
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I didn't either. Ouch
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You and me both
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3/29/2019 6:16 pm |
Thanks for sharing! Very informative!
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Thanks for sharing! Very informative!
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3/30/2019 6:04 am |
Good information
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Good information
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3/30/2019 7:49 pm |
All the sExpert*z here know everything already (\/)y Dear. Some have multiple Profile*z they are sssooo busy. After all,,,, they invented it all. This a Most Excellent Blog, and many, will gain from it. . tY**** ^^
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Glad you enjoyed it. The information was interesting to put together. Thanks for stopping by.
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